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SELF-LOVE MIRROR RITUAL GUIDE

Release Negative Self-Talk & Reclaim Your Worth


By Blangelika Rivera, Founder of I AM MY BIGGEST FAN™


INTRODUCTION

Beautiful soul, if you’ve been stuck in a cycle of self-doubt, criticism, or constantly giving your power away… this sacred mirror ritual is for you.

Too many of us avoid our reflection, not because we don’t see ourselves, but because we’ve been trained to look for flaws instead of divinity. Well, guess what?


It’s time to un-train the inner critic and retrain your soul to see the truth:

✨ You are love.

✨ You are enough.

✨ You are already everything you’re looking for.


This Self-Love Mirror Ritual is your sacred pause—a ritual to reconnect with yourself, release old stories, and remember your power. No perfection required—just presence.


WHAT YOU’LL NEED:

  • A mirror (handheld, full-length, or bathroom mirror)

  • A quiet space where you can be undisturbed

  • A journal or notebook + pen

  • Optional: candle, essential oil, or soft music for ambiance


STEP-BY-STEP RITUAL

1. Sacred Setup

Light a candle or take three deep cleansing breaths. Say aloud:

“This space is sacred. I honor myself here. I welcome in love and release judgment.”

2. Eye-Gazing Practice

Look directly into your eyes in the mirror. Hold your gaze. Breathe. Allow emotions to rise. You’re not here to fix anything—you’re here to witness yourself with compassion.


3. Speak Affirmations Aloud

Begin saying these affirmations out loud. Choose the ones that resonate, or create your own:

  • “I am proud of the woman I am becoming.”

  • “I forgive myself for all the times I dimmed my light.”

  • “I am worthy of joy, pleasure, success, and peace.”

  • “I choose to love myself right now, as I am.”

  • “I am my biggest fan.”

Say them slowly. Say them like you mean it. Let them land.


4. Journal Reflection

Write freely using these soul-aligned prompts:

  • What would I say to the little girl within me today?

  • What does my heart most need to hear right now?

  • What old belief about myself am I ready to let go of?

  • How can I begin to treat myself like someone I deeply love?


5. Closing Blessing

Place both hands over your heart and repeat:

“I am safe to be me. I trust my journey. I honor my healing. I choose love.”

Blow out your candle or close the ritual by smiling at yourself and saying, “Thank you for showing up.”

KEEP THE LOVE FLOWING

✨ Post a sticky note on your mirror with one affirmation to remind yourself daily

✨ Repeat this ritual weekly, especially when you’re feeling disconnected or self-critical

✨ Invite your friends or sisters to try it too, because healing is contagious


ABOUT THE AUTHOR: BLANGELIKA RIVERA


Blangelika Rivera is a Reiki Master, Empowerment Life Coach, and the visionary behind I AM MY BIGGEST FAN™ and Blangelika’s Boutique & Holistic Healing Studio in Auburndale, Florida. Servicing clients globally. After overcoming her own battles with anxiety, depression, and self-worth, Blangelika chose a holistic path to happiness rooted in energy healing, self-love, and spiritual empowerment. Her mission? To help women around the world go from stuck to thriving through a Holistic Approach to Happiness.


She offers 1:1 coaching, retreats, workshops, events, classes, networking events, and her signature membership:

Be Your Kind of Happy™


Ready to reclaim your power?



Please share your testimonials at the Healing With Blangelika Facebook Group, where you can find free resources for the Holistic Approach to Happiness.


With love,

Blangelika





 
 
 

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